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| Thursday, 24-Apr-2008 09:50 |
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Perginya Teruna Jaya
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... i lost my words!
my grandfather, whom i called embah, was diagnosed with colon cancer early November last year. for an 85 year old man, there was nothing the doctor could do to cure him. it was a tough decision for the doctor to make, and after much discussion with other surgeons, the kind doctor finally agreed to proceed with the surgical procedure. he made it clear to all that the main reason he agreed was to ease embah's pain, and to allow him to perform his prayers and speeches at the Masjid, but NOT to stop the cancerous, or send embah for chemotherapy.
without that surgical procedure, embah might only stand for at least two months. and with the surgical procedure, embah could have 4 more extra months to beramal.
embah was quite well after the first operation (was held on Friday). he continued meeting his friends for prayers, and giving speeches. i visited him in February, he was energetic... and was ready to go for Maghrib prayer at the Masjid. he remembered me, my mom and my maternal gramma, who was with us. sempat jugak dia bace doa utk kami semua, sebelum dia bertolak ke masjid petang tu. tapi sayangnya, i didnt snap any photo! 
Nov, Dec, Jan, Feb, Mar, and coming April...
last Friday the 18th of April, embah went for the second surgery... the procedure which was approximately to end after 2 hours was dragged for 4 long hours. doctor discovered that some blockages and yada yada yada. he was probably in deep pain... that caused him not opening his eyes the whole weekend. papa said that he was stable, but very weak. he refused to open up his eyes, and only responded to certain things.
monday the 21st - my grandmother, Tok Puan, was admitted to the same specialist hospital for dengue fever. Alhamdulillah, she was not so badly infected by her temperature was quite high. embah's condition was not so pleasant... he was given drugs to endure his agony. his blood pressure and heart beat were normal.
tuesday the 22nd - Papa and Aunty Kane had to return to KL. Papa informed embah that he needed to go back to KL, and would return to visit him on Thursday. embah looked at papa, and closed his eyes tightly...
That evening, Papa's sister, Mama Sayang sent out an sms that read
"Z dah naik atas tengok K, K dah sedar tengok Z jer..."
(Z is Tok Puan, and K is embah - my Tok Puan and embah are far more advance and romantic than S.iti Nur.haliza and Datuk K ok!)
wednesday the 23rd - embah became more stable, responded when people talked to him, and even tadah tangan dan ikut when Uncle D (who is residing in the US) recited Al-Fatihah through the phone. He also asked for Papa, and Aunty Kane (who were both back in KL), which my aunty, Mama Sayang replied that both the children would come back and visit him soon. When my cousin, Abang, visited embah that evening. embah thought that he was Uncle D!
Embah felt uneasy the whole night. another cousin of mine, Din, did not sleep to make sure that embah did not pull off his oxygen tube, or get out of his bed.
thursday the 24th - Mak Uda came to visit embah in the morning. He looked fresh, and smiled to Mak Uda and Aunty Rai. He asked for Tok Puan. Mak Uda told him that Tok Puan would come in a minute (apparently Tok Puan was having her check up downstairs). When Mak Uda saw embah being conscious and full aware of the surroundings, she told embah to perform solat - just solat at his convenience. so, embah closed his eyes, rose both hands with palms facing forward (takbir-ratul-ihram), and place them below his navel (perform qiyam). He was quiet.
Both Mak Uda and Aunty Rai were speechless seeing him... There was a light coming out from him, and his face suddenly turned pale. The doctors were called in to check on embah.
| Quote: | الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ
This can also be read when any calamity befalls. By saying so, Allah instructs His angels to build a house for His servant in Jannah and to name it "Bait-ul-Hamd" (House of Praise).
(Hisnul Hasin from Tirmidhi) |
Al-Fatihah.... He was taken away with the light....
| Quote: | ارواح الشهداء في حواصل طير خضر تسرح في الجنة حيث شاءت
The souls of the martyrs are in the hearts of green birds; they fly about in paradise wherever they wish. |
and today, we have lost the most precious pearl... Teruna Jaya! (his pen name...)
embah, tok, ayah, ayah ma, tuan haji, haji k.umasi, cikgu k.umasi... May Allah Rest His Soul.
His wishes to die on either Thursday or Friday, and die in his prayer were granted... Alhamdulillah!
(he was buried on Thursday evening, close to his younger brother - as he wished too!)
May Allah Forgive Your Sins And Make You a Place In Paradise... AMEEN!
Al-Fatihah!
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| Sunday, 20-Apr-2008 17:05 |
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Stroll Down The Memory Lane...
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fr cameron highlands, we made a detour to Ipoh...
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hajat di hati nak cari kenangan...
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after 12 years he left Ipoh... we got lost!
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this entry is exclusive on *+*kelip-kelip*+*..
strolling down the memory lane....
since we were heading up to cameron, and took the simpang pulai exit, mmg buang tenaga kalau tak singgah ke tempat jatuh lagi dikenang..
so, on the way back to KL, we made a detour to Ipoh. the town has changed a lot since he last visited 12 years ago... and we were a lil bit lost to find the s.ekolah m.enengah m.elayu ipoh! (harapkan dok ipoh 5 tahun je, tapi agak hampeh bab bab jalan nih!!!) 
anyhow, with MY determination... we finally arrived at around 5pm. he grinned   as he looked at the signboard written 'S.EKOLAH T.UANKU A.BDUL R.AHMAN'... and me? errrmmm... i was all excited doowwwhhh....  asek dgr name skolah je, tapi tak penah pegi pon kan?!!!
we parked outside the compound... and i snapped few photos of the signboard and field (from outside) before he decided to leave. WHAT???  all the way to Ipoh, and you jes wanna leave like that? HECK no!!! 'masuk! masuk! masuk! i nak tengok!'  i shouted! (with the power of woman) 
ek ot ek ot ek ot... 'No Way!  Masuk lah! Buang mase sesat kat ipoh tapi tak nak masuk! bile lagi u nak dtg tgk??' kan??
finally, he agreed... he walked out the car, and asked for the mak guard's permission to go around the compound. the ever so baik hati mak guard allowed us to drive in..... and walked around! 
so, here are few momentos i captured... 
in short, i cant compare STAR to STF. both schools have the sentimental values of its own. if STF punye pintu cowboy kat bilik HEM, STAR nye pintu cowboy utk masuk toilet...  (their academic building is like our blok pentadbiran!) and the ambience is more or less the same... (i guess all SBP punye ambience same mcm tuh!!!) 
my my my.... after years of listening to him singing his school song almost every morning (yes! he does it to wake me up... and to give him motivation to get to work!) i have finally been there!!!
my 1st mission to at least get him visit the school has succeeded!  
and 2nd mission coming on the way - to make him join the Old Boys Weekend! (this particular mission, i have a lil doubt lah! but, we'll see...)
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| Saturday, 12-Apr-2008 11:30 |
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When Girls Meet Ladies...
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it has been ages since the HARDY GIRLS last met...
HARDY GIRLS?? auuuwwcchhhh.... y'kno we were once teens, just like other teens, who are so obsessed to name their girly group, we have it too. and ours is HARDY GIRLS! i remember that we had our school nametags with the surname, HARDY! come to think of it now, ianya adalah sangat poyo....  eeeuuuwww.... but, it was all fun tho! balek sekolah pergi warong siti makan mee bandung... my Goodness!!! that has been ages!!! (i will dig my boxes one day and get the school-days pictures!)
after graduated and working, we sometimes would go out for breakfast at Melor. Our favourites would be Puree or Apom for the Sunday morning... the morning breakfast would normally drag out til noon, whereby we would then go out hunting for warehouse sales...
TODAY, most of us are already married, and have kids. no more Sunday morning breakfast to be looking forward to... those with kids sudah susah nak bangun pagi... those without kids, duduk jauh... and the singles, dah bawak diri jauh jauh...  
so, since most of them have already had kids, and couldnt afford to lepak mamak lame-lame, i decided to throw a brunch party at my pad. 
we had fun in the pool, and also the normal 'updating' session. not forgetting, exchanging gifts!!! 
the half Saturday at home was fully utilised... and it was indeed more FUN!
insyaAllah, there will be more of this lepak-home-session in future... (just the women spending quality time together!)  
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| Tuesday, 1-Apr-2008 00:00 |
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Praise be to Allah...
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We have finally moved in... Alhamdulillah!
Tho there are few more touch ups to be done, and drilling work, but we are fully prepared to welcome guest.
We have decided to treat everyone special! So, relatives and friends, give me a buzz and tell me when you are free to come over... insyaAllah, we will throw a private function for you. If we were to hold a housewarming party, our lil pad could not accomodate the relatives or friends...
'Tea by the lake', anyone? 
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| Monday, 31-Mar-2008 14:10 |
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Cinta Antara Kita
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somebody got me listen to Dun.ia Baru The Movie's soundtrack, Cinta Antara Kita.
not bad... (you have to click to the link, and sing along.. i have prepared the lyrics for your convenience!)
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Duta:
sejak dari dulu
ku menyintaimu
kau tahu begitu namun kau berpura
ku masih teringat kau peluk diriku
yg telah membuat ku menyintaimu
sudah berapa lama
diriku ini
tak bertemu mu
mungkin ku
harap jua
kau merindu ku
sebagaimanaku rindumu
Duta:
cinta antara kita
tiada penghalangnya
walau akhir usia
ku menyinta dirimu
ku hanya menunggu mu
menyata kau cintaku
ku kan berjanji
menyintamu sayang....
Baizura Kahar:
setelah kau pergi jauh dari sisi
tiada ku cinta selain dirimu
ku ingin bersama dgnmu selamanya
walaupun sehingga ke akhir nyawa
mungkin kau tak mengerti maksudku
dulu pada dirimu
kiniku kan menyinta dirimu itu
sehingga ke akhir waktu
Baizura Kahar:
cinta antara kita
tiada penghalangnya walau akhir usia
ku menyintai dirimu
ku hanya menunggu mu
menyata kau cintaku
ku kan berjanji
menyintamu sayang....
Duta:
sudah berapa lama
diriku ini tak bertemu mu
Baizura Kahar:
mungkin ku harap jua
kau merindu ku
sebagaimanaku rindumu
Duta:
cinta antara kita
tiada penghalangnya
walau akhir usia ku
menyinta dirimu
Baizura Kahar:
hanya menunggu mu
menyata kau cintaku
ku kan berjanji
menyintamu sayang....
Duta & Baizura Kahar:
cinta antara kita
tiada penghalangnya
walau akhir usia ku
menyintai dirimu
ku hanya menunggu mu
menyata kau cintaku
ku kan berjanji
menyintamu sayang....
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but but but... chooppp chopppp choooppp *twwwiiiitttt*
dont judge it, until you have watched and listened to him...
Click lah! jgn degil!
he is the reason why i fell in love with the song!
siap lah... dia balek sini nanti akan berbekas lah pipi tangan kaki badan dia dgn gigi Along yang straight nih (sbb kak long dia nye gigi belom straight abes)!
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| Saturday, 22-Mar-2008 12:00 |
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insya Allah, we're moving.....
thus, cant afford to spend much time in updating.
i'll be away... till i gain my access back and dapur dah berasap, insya Allah.
take care!
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ps: gambar di atas hanyalah perhiasan semata-mata. penerbit tiada niat utk menunjuk atau memburukkan mane2 pihak. hopefully, takde lah org nak mengate (comment box pon dah dimansuhkan utk kebahagiaan semua org!)... sesape yg nak mengate tuh it's ur loss!
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| Saturday, 8-Mar-2008 12:30 |
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Papa Burst-day Luncheon!
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bday boy (senior citizen get 50% off) and abgcik
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x toleh kiri kanan...
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budak comel yg makan segala bende...
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right after i cast my vote, we went to my parents' to gather before push off to KL.
unlike last year, papa's birthday makan2 this year, we had good dimsum buffet. since the budak2 skolah do not appreciate dimsum, and not deserve a buffet spread, they went separate ways (except for aye!).
it has been ages since we had our last dimsum... and this time around, we were more than grateful! it was abg cik and aye's first time, and they were indeed delighted!
happy birthday, papa!
we love you!
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| Saturday, 8-Mar-2008 11:00 |
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For My Religion, My Country, and My Future...
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kuar2 rumah... nmpk lil kancil nih siap ade sticker...
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pagi2...bulan dah terang!
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dacing pon terbang melayang...
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it was my second time casting... yet, the thrill was still there.
i had butterfly flying in my stomach when i looked up at the beautiful sky that very morning.
it gave a sign of miracle!
as i approached the school, i was still undecided, who to vote, and why should the person deserve my big 'X'.
roket naik menuju ke bulan, bulan jatuh terbelah dua, bile ditimbang tak sama berat, cemane? amik kunci belah dada... tanye lah diri sape yang deserve?
i agree, we need a change.
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| Sunday, 2-Mar-2008 16:30 |
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Chilli Merah
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the day after this car got hit...
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faris was all excited to mkn besar!!
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faris whispered, 'dont kish me, nnt pak teh marah!!'
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the day after the accident, we gathered with kelip-kelip's siblings (i guess, it was the first time the KL siblings gathered!). since they (kelip-kelip and his sister) have just gotten their annual bonus, so everythg was on them! 
venue : c.ili merah, m.idvalley
time : after 6
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| Saturday, 1-Mar-2008 20:00 |
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9999, To The Rescue!!!
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jammed tak jammed laa jugak!!!
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teruk kan?? baru balek jepun 2 hari daahh terkena!! syian...
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putus patah kemek semuanya...
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we were running some errands in puc.hong when kelip-kelip received a call from his youngest brother. his brother, whom we called ke.nit, met with an accident in fe.deral h.ighway (near sg.way). the lil kancil he borrowed from the other brother was knocked by another kancil, and the kancil he drove knocked the car infront of him. so, his kancil was sandwiched!!!
Alhamdulillah... no major or minor injuries. But the two kancils really need to be towed! luckily, it was still early... if not, mmg sampai pagi bute lah kami dok balai!!
To those who passed by federal highway that night, apologise for the inconvenience that caused the traffic!!!
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abang fuad balik ari tu pun tak henti-2 puji.dia kata nanti ke KL nak tidur sana..Insya-Allah nanti kak mai turun KL kak mai gi ah melawat..skrg dah takleh jalan jauh..dah sarat..dr check perut pun cakap baby dah penuh dalam perut ni. 
